About Cortney

Jovan Matic Photography

Jovan Matic Photography

Cortney Pasternak, MA, MEd, is licensed by the Registrar General of Ontario and the Ontario Humanist Society to provide Humanist (similar to civil or legal) marriage ceremonies in Ontario. She officiates most other life passage ceremonies as well which include funerals, memorials, celebrations of life, baby namings, etc. She has been screened and trained by the Ontario Humanist Society, which is a vibrant and growing organization that advocates for, among other things, social justice, human rights, inclusivity and environmental sustainability.

Blended Jewish-Christian Ceremony, William Kwok Photography

Cortney is also a Masters level psychotherapist and counsellor, trained at the University of Toronto in the Counselling Psychology/Counselling & Psychotherapy program. She provides counselling to individuals, couples and families and currently practices in the GTHA. She has also been trained to offer marriage preparation counselling for couples from a Humanist and secular perspective. This work largely focuses on helping couples further develop and maintain their loving bonds, and their communication and problem solving skills — all cited as being key ingredients to maintaining successful, long term relationships.
Cortney is a current member of the Ontario Association of Consultants, Counselors, Psychometrists and Psychotherapists (OACCPP) and the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO).

Prior to her more recent training, Cortney obtained a Masters Degree in Communication and Culture from York University and has completed doctoral level research. Her professional background is also that of a post-secondary school educator and mentor, journalist and writer, where she has helped a vast array of people share their most meaningful stories — a passion that informs her highly personalized approach to building ceremonies. Cortney is often told one of her key strengths in facilitating life passage ceremonies is her ability to communicate with energy, warmth, compassion and empathy having worked for many years as a professional communicator through her work as a broadcast journalist and storyteller, an educator, and through her Humanist work.

A little rock, paper, scissors to decide vow order during this Toronto ceremony

A little rock, paper, scissors to decide vow order during this Toronto ceremony

Cortney lives with her family, moving between Hamilton, Toronto and the West GTA.  When she can find the time, Cortney loves to travel, paint, read and cook with her family.  She believes that Humanist ceremonies offer wonderful ways to build bridges among families and to grow diverse and inclusive communities.